Found myself in the very same situation after a party with a guy that I met the same evening. He offered me to sleep at his place, but I was curious why he looked at me so weird all evening. At his place we had a drink, some lines and then he offered me poop er s. After sniffing that I had the guts to ask him questions about being gay. At that point he told me that he was gay so I had questions. Well... We ended up exactly like this.